Friday, 14 October 2011

Play Nice With Your Sex Toys

Bringing sex toys into your relationship can be a way to invigorate a stale routine or max out an exciting one. Even a simple visit to an adult toy store or lingerie shop with your spouse can make a couple see what they’ve been missing or discover things that they never, ever want to try. It can be a time to break through walls and discuss secret fantasies or broach requests that may otherwise fester secretly into resentment and resignation. 

However, there are some things to keep in mind when using sex toys and things you both should know from a medical standpoint before you start bringing home anything exclusive to the bedside drawer.





Make sure you are not allergic to anything.
A latex allergy is common and if you or your partner has a latex allergy, then you have to be very careful with any sex toys. Even sex toys that claim to be latex free may have been exposed to latex at some point in the manufacturing process. You are fairly safe using silicone toys, but read the labels and make sure the toy doesn’t have any scented dyes, which may be latex-based. If you find yourself having an allergic reaction to a sex toy, stop immediately and seek medical attention.


Wednesday, 12 October 2011

Explosive orgasm

5 Steps to Explosive Orgasms reveals the secrets for becoming an absolutely unforgettable lover...both for your man...as well as yourself. These simple and effective techniques will give both you and your man more sexual pleasure than ever before.
Are you ready for some unrestrained moaning?...

Good Vibrations
The quickest way for you to have an orgasm is with a good vibrator. Vibrators can be a great addition to your sexual exploration and development. Play with your toys to learn what turns you on and how you achieve an orgasm. Then you will be able to share with your man how to make it happen.

If you like something inside you while you stimulate your clitoris...try a dildo. For penetration...go with something longer rather than shorter.

There is a difference between a dildo and a vibrator. A dildo is always insertable and a vibrator doesn't have to be. But some dildos do vibrate

Do You Like It Hard Or Soft?
Hard vibrators tend to produce a stronger and more powerful vibration than softer ones. But harder plastic may not be as comfortable as silicone for insertion.

Hard vibrators tend to be cheaper than silicone ones. Walmart sells a hard plastic "body massager with attachment" for $17.

A plug-in model like this gives a very powerful vibration. If the vibrations are too strong for you...use it over your panties.

A vibrator for clitoral stimulation alone doesn't have to be big to pack a punch. You need to be careful not to overdo it by going too strong at first. You can numb yourself temporarily with a vibrator.

You will probably have an explosive orgasm quite quickly by using a vibrator on or near your clitoris.

The Purring Thrusting Panther
A rabbit style vibrator is for simultaneous stimulation of both your clitoris and G-spot. You might find you need that combination of stimulation in order to experience an orgasm.

The Purring Thrusting Panther ($62) is a dual vibrator that stimulates both your clitoris and G-spot simultaneously. The Panther has a thrusting motion option that most other rabbit vibrators don't have.

The main shaft of the vibe thrusts up and down and around while the head vibrates and oscillates on the G-spot. The clitoral stimulator is a smaller vibrator that branches out and looks like a panther.

Five buttons provide control for:
  • 9 speeds of thrusting
  • 9 speeds of clitoral stimulation
  • 5 patterns of vibration
The Purring Thrusting Panther is powered by four AA batteries.

It is made of high quality silicone and is easy to clean. Try not to push your fingernails into the silicone. You don't want to tear it.

Keeping Lubricated
Make sure you use lots of lubricant to avoid any chafing or discomfort later.

System JO H2O Water Based (2.5 oz. $6) is my favorite basic lubricant. You can add water and it gets slippery again and it washes off easily. System JO Women Premium Personal (8 oz. $13) is also good for sensitive skin.

Don't use silicone-based lubricants with silicone toys because the lubricant can slowly degrade the silicone of the toy. Sexual Lubrication has more information about sexual lubricants.







Tuesday, 11 October 2011

Orgasms Incredible Passionate Sex

Do you ever wonder why some relationships last longer than others? And/or why some committed relationships seem to have a chemistry and dance about them that sail through the years? There are many possible reasons for this. But the one that I hear most often is that certain couples have learned what I might call the Erotic Tango. By this I mean that the couple is learning how to connect with the other with Passionate Sex more than Hot Sex. In other words, the couple intentionally tries to connect with his/her lover from the heart space (allowing them access to what’s below the skin), while deeply respecting the heart-nuances of the other.



This paradigm of Hot Sex vs. Passionate Sex has been around a long time. It is often misunderstood, and therefore treated as an unacceptable choice to most people. The truth is that both are healthy and important in a committed relationship. Hot Sex is described as having lusty encounters (often spontaneous) with toe-curling stimulation. Passionate Sex is having sexual encounters that reveal and experience your heart and soul (emotional intimacy) as you make love, i.e. an underlying passion for the other. Both are satisfying, stimulating and very lusty. Passionate Sex, however, creates lasting connection and deep fulfillment within a relationship.


Sunday, 9 October 2011

Orgasmic Massage

"Orgasmic Massage" is a new step in a sexual life of any modern person, a disclosure of new erogenous zones, an exchange and increase in positive energy and emotions. "Orgasmic  Massage" reveals a huge amount of sexual energy and it is only natural that the culmination point is the maximal excitation and a discharge - achievement of orgasm. Regular practice of "Orgasmic  Massage" not only improves your organism in general, but as well completely opens all your (at times unexplored) erogenous zones and allows you to keep your body under control as long as you wish.

The main task of "Orgasmic Massage" is sexual stimulation. Sexual excitation can be achieved by caressing of sensitive parts of a body (erogenous zones). Body to body massage causes strong impulses which through nervous system are transferred to genitals. 
 
The purpose of "Orgasmic Massage" is to excite you, to create favorable conditions for sensual pleasure and eventually for high-grade and duly orgasm. The essential component of your enjoyment is also the pleasure of aesthetic and spiritual communication with me.



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Friday, 9 September 2011

Secret Of The Virginal


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Sex, The Purest Forms of Human Endeavor.



Within every woman’s body lies the potential for ex-traordinary pleasure—pleasure so consuming and compelling that, once experienced, it immediately and permanently re-defines a woman’s understanding of her own sexuality. Every woman deserves to discover this potential and embrace this pleasure.
Sex is believe as one of the purest forms of human endeavor. Sex is kaleidoscopic in its expressive and experiential possibility. It can be joyously exuberant. It can be a thrilling adventure into the unknown. It can be soothing and centering. Sex cuts to the core of who you are as an individual. It is the ultimate arena of sharing
between people. It is the nourishing confluence of so many special elements: touch, physicality, communication, play, genital activity, arousal, orgasm, and intimacy.  But none of this is possible if we are not connected to our own sensual potential .

Saturday, 11 June 2011

Orgasm

You didnt make YOU come baby




Carlos Mencia (born October 22, 1967), born Ned Arnel Mencia, is a Honduran-born American comedian, writer, and actor. His style of comedy is often political and involves issues of race, culture, and social class. He was formerly the host of his own show on Comedy Central, Mind of Mencia.

Thursday, 9 June 2011

Sex Can Cure Headaches

Sex a Better Pain Reliever Than Ibuprofen Medicine



A very common saying we all have heard “Not tonight dear, I have a headache.”  Having sex can cause blood flow faster and expansion of the blood vessels that in our heads and cause headaches.  And it is also true that sex can relieve headaches and pain and lot of women are practicing this method instead of taking pain killer and other dangerous drugs.

Friday, 3 June 2011

Women Need A Skilled Partner To Orgasm

Many men pride themselves on their ability to make a woman orgasm (and your skills are definitely appreciated), but the ultimate responsibility for a woman’s orgasm belongs to her. It’s perfectly normal for a woman to have difficulty achieving a vaginal orgasm -- that’s why God invented the clitoris. Meaning: She can still achieve a fabulous orgasm even if her lover is a virgin with limited experience and know-how. A man’s efforts are certainly helpful, but if she’s not achieving orgasm she has no one to blame but herself. Additionally, many women suffer from performance anxiety just as men do. If a woman falls into this category, even the most skillful of men wouldn’t be able to make her orgasm, regardless of his efforts.

While virginity may seem a bit outdated and old-fashioned, a number of women in their 20s and 30s are exactly that -- virginal. If you’re dating a "future sex kitten" and she’s decided you’re the one, you’ll want to keep several things in mind as you rock her world. Unlike sexually experienced women, if she's a virgin, she doesn’t really know what to expect, apart from what her girlfriends have told her -- which means she’s either going to be anticipating lots of pain or lots of ecstasy, depending who she’s talked to.

All women want a G-spot orgasm

Put in the simplest terms possible: This is a load of crap. While it’s true that many women lust for G-spot orgasms, it’s a complete orgasm myth that all women desire such a thing. For many women, having the G-spot stimulated -- even "correctly" -- results in a sensation that can only be described as extremely uncomfortable. It can make a woman feel like she needs to urinate immediately, and that’s never fun. It can also cause her to feel pain, and not in a sexy kind of way, either. In fact, the whole stimulating the G-spot thing can annoy some women to the point where it completely turns them off for the rest of the evening. Yes, some women love having their G-spot stimulated -- but many don’t.

Thursday, 2 June 2011

Top 10 Things That Lower Your Sex Drive

What makes a sizzling hot relationship go ice-cold?
No matter how good it gets, there just comes a time when the idea of sex will seem like a chore and the idea of “performance” will loom over your head like a responsibility rather than a period of wild abandon. 

“Think about it, when you first enter a room, you become aware of the noise in the background. But the longer you stay in the room, the more you will become accustomed to it and no longer hear it. It is the body’s natural response to repeated stimuli,” says Dr. Wei, explaining why it is very hard to sustain the buzz in someone’s sex life.

Sex Drive Just Isn't What It Used To Be

Wondering what happened to your Libido? 
Libido refers to a person's sex drive or desire for sexual activity. The desire for sex is an aspect of a person's sexuality, but varies enormously from one person to another, and it also varies depending on circumstances at a particular time. A person who has extremely frequent or a suddenly increased sex drive may be experiencing hypersexuality. Sex drive has usually biological, psychological, and social components. Biologically, hormone levels, such as testosterone, is believed to affect sex drive; social factors, such as work and family, also have an impact; as do internal psychological factors, like personality and stress. Sex drive may be affected by medical conditions, medications, lifestyle and relationship issues.

Sunday, 29 May 2011

Anal Sex Is Just One Of Those Things: She Either Loves It Or She Hates It.

Anal sex has a tang of taboo attached to it, though this is disappearing: The taboo status of anal sex gives it better credence among the adventuresome and timid alike, and this adds to its attraction.

There is very little in between. Most women have tried it at some point, and a fair few of them will never dare again despite their hankering to be one of the "lucky ones" who love anal sex. The reason for this avoidance is clear: pain. If there was no pain, there was probably pleasure. Hence, love or hate.



It is true, however, that while you're trying to "get it right" there are likely to be some painful moments; however, practice makes perfect and it’s the ability to maneuver oneself and try different styles that allows anal sex to be pleasurable.

Virgin Feels Violated By Gynecological Exams


Is there a special "down there" doctor's exam?
When addressing reproductive health concerns, care and treatment often require attention to parts of your body that are normally left unseen by all but your most intimate partners. Having never had sex before, it is understandable that invasive pelvic exams and procedures would make you feel uncomfortable. The fact that you are choosing to look for ways to address your discomfort rather than foregoing care is great!

Feelings of violation often come about when there is uncertainty or a lack of control over a situation. In a clinical setting where much of the jargon, instruments, and procedures are foreign and intimidating, it is no wonder feelings like this may arise. However, it is the responsibility of your health care providers to guide you through the process of getting care. As a health care consumer, you have the right to know what is going on with your body, how to address those issues, your options for treatment, and the details of the treatment you choose.

Risks of anal sex, other than STIs?

Anal sex enthusiasts can relax (a good thing to do during anal sex!), because contrary to what you heard, anal sex does not loosen the anus or cause an inability to control bowel movements. However, there can be risks associated with anal sex other than sexually transmitted infections (STIs), so it's important to take steps to minimize these risks.

Friction, the enemy of pleasure and safety during sex, is produced during anal sex, much as it is during vaginal sex. However, friction may be more of an issue during anal sex because the lining of the anus is more delicate and produces less natural lubricant than the vagina.

Guarantee Her An Orgasm

Certain things are needed to push women over the brink of ecstasy. Try these bedroom-tested strategies. 

When I'm this close to orgasm -- eyes squeezed shut, lips twisted in a Billy Idol sneer, cheeks glowing -- the most descriptive word wouldn't be "passionate" or "erotic." It would be "determined." Because right then, at the edges of my fading consciousness, I'm worried that the phone will ring, my knees will lose their traction on the sheets, or my boyfriend will change position, and suddenly I'll be sliding away from that elusive peak instead of moving toward it. For the 75 percent of women who don't always reach orgasm during intercourse, this happens all the time.

Saturday, 28 May 2011

The We-Vibe II



The We-Vibe II is small enough to be worn while making love and it is the only hands free clitoral vibe with no straps, panties, wires or rings to get in the way. This form fitting and comfortable vibe is made from medical grade silicone and is rechargeable and completely waterproof. This massager is about 10 times more powerful than a typical bullet and it has no batteries to fuss with. 7 modes of vibration! Including:Low(3000 RPM), High(5000 RPM), Throb, Wave, Pulse, Rev, Tease, Slo-Rev, and Cha-Cha!

Can't Have Orgasm From Vaginal Stimulation? Try a Toy.



I used to orgasm just from vaginal stimulation from my husband's penis, but lately I can't feel it anymore. What can I do other than stimulate my clitoris every time?

Woman Would Like To Orgasm During Intercourse



Dr. Trina Read answers the question, "I've never had a vaginal orgasm during intercourse. Is there something wrong with me?"

British Release 'Orgasm a Day' Leaflet for Students

The National Health Service in Britain has released a leaflet for students that outlines the health benefits and pleasure of masturbation and sex and urges them to take part on a regular basis. 
"An orgasm a day keeps the doctor away" is the message of the leaflets that are titled "Pleasure." The authors of the leaflet say that too much emphasis has been placed on developing good relationships and having "safe sex." People normally have sex for pleasure, they say, which is why a change of emphasis is needed. The authors also say that teenagers have an equal "right" to sex as adults. It also says that sex is good for cardiovascular health and should be just as important as vegetables in a healthy diet.

What's The Best Way For Women To Have an Orgasm?

If you don't know exactly what it is you like or what it takes for you to reach orgasm, it's a good idea to practice on your own. For some people the very idea of stimulating themselves can seem worrying, or unappealing, or something to be ashamed of. It’s a good idea if women can rid themselves of these feelings.

Masturbation is a great way to lessen tension in your body. It’s a very safe way to have an orgasm. And it’s probably the best way to learn about how your body likes to be loved. . But masturbation, like most things, takes practice. And the only way to learn about your own sexual response is to try it.

If you have never tried masturbation, or you want to do it in such a way that will be more pleasurable and satisfying then it has been in the past, then you might need to plan how and when to do it, rather than leave it to chance. For a start, you need to ensure that you’re going to have adequate time to yourself and that you won't be interrupted.

Friday, 27 May 2011

4 Tricks To Make Her Orgasm

You’re impressed by your ability to make her squirm like that, but deep down your thoughts race between: "What if she’s faking?" and "If not, how do I hit this magic button again?" If you’ve ever been there, or for that matter would like to find yourself in that enviable position, check out these four tricks to make her orgasm.

Put on musky cologne.
Smell is the strongest of the five senses when it comes to sexual functioning for two reasons: First, since anything musky mimics testosterone, it’ll kick her libido into high gear. Baby powder can have a similar effect by activating her “scent print,” which links babies to procreation. Second, because smell, sex and memory centers share close quarters in the brain, the scent of arousal leaves the most lasting impression. The second she gets a whiff of your musky cologne, she’ll be transported back to the last time she smelled it on your body.

Orgasm Can Eliminate Migraine

Dr. James Crouch of Southern Illinois School of Medicine has studied 25 people with migraine. The result, sex can treat headaches. Orgasm can also eliminate migraine.

He then asks all patients to perform sexual reach orgasm. The result, nine of them reported their headaches disappear once they have orgasm. While the remaining free from that suffering.

Thursday, 26 May 2011

Having Trouble Reaching Orgasm?

Are you having trouble reaching orgasm? A lot of young women are worried about their lack of ability to climax. But the fact is, unlike males, most females have to learn to reach orgasm. But to understand more about the female orgasm, let's go back to the start of a woman's sexual life. Research shows that most younger women do not manage to climax until some considerable time after they have started sexual activity. Moreover, when they do 'come' for the very first time, they do so in a variety of ways.